Scripture implores us to encourage each other and Hebrews 10:25 gives us a context: “Don’t stop meeting together with other believers, which some people have gotten into the habit of doing. Instead, encourage each other, especially as you see the day drawing near” (CEB).

This takes me to the topic of gathering, and how healthy it is to do so. Recently I attended a gathering of local pastors, district superintendents, and certified lay ministers in Earlville and an event sponsored by the Center for Asian/Asian American Ministry and the Reuben P. Job Institute for Spiritual Formation at Garrett-Evangelical Seminary. One could say that these events were healing for all involved. I saw encouragement, honesty, challenge, and appreciation. I heard laughter. These things are healing.

It reminded me of Psalm 40: “I’ve told the good news of your righteousness in the great assembly. I didn’t hold anything back—as you well know, Lord! I didn’t keep your righteousness only to myself. I declared your faithfulness and your salvation. I didn’t hide your loyal love and trustworthiness from the great assembly” (verses 9-10, CEB).When someone experiences healing of faith or body, that healing is not complete until it is shared in community. This surfacing bears witness and offers hope to others. Our faith calls Christians to come together in groups for worship, mission, prayer, witness—and healing. What groups do you contribute to? What groups are sustaining for you?

During the recent funeral for Gary Curl, one of our retired clergy, pastors spoke of his commitment to mentoring other clergy out of his own concern, not because he was assigned to do so. He took interest in new clergy. He reached out to Korean pastors and built relationships that helped them feel less isolated and sharpened their ministry.

It seems to me that the presence of clergy at our colleagues’ funerals is sign of our connection. Yes, it can be difficult for clergy to attend funerals or memorial services on Saturdays.That said, I have often wondered what the absence of clergy communicates.

One of my seminary professors, Dick Murray, told us on the first day class to “find yourself a crazy friend and a sane friend. Your crazy friend will say, ‘Let’s get away for a ball game or go see a concert.’ Your sane friend will say, 'Be accountable. Buckle down. Focus.’”

While I don't think I would use the word crazy to describe those who seek a spontaneous break, I would emphasize how sustaining it is to make friends of difference and diversity; friends who can laugh with you and challenge you. I stand on the shoulders of my good friends.

Encourage each other.